Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu: Part 12 - The Not-Self In Love - Strategies That Sabotage Relationships

Part 12: The Not-Self in Love - Strategies That Sabotage Relationships Based on Ra Uru Hu’s “Understanding Our Design in Relationships” (1998) “The not-self wants love. It will chase love, bargain for love, lie for love. But it will never find it.”— Ra Uru Hu What Is the Not-Self? The Not-Self is the conditioned version of who you think you are.It emerges from open centers, absorbing and amplifying what’s not yours. In relationships, the Not-Self becomes the one who: Tries to fix or change the partner Sacrifices authenticity for acceptance Creates drama, dependency, or avoidance Confuses conditioning with chemistry Ra didn’t sugarcoat it: “Most relationships are not between two beings. They’re between two not-selves — each trying to survive.” "Don’t miss out — click ‘Get Link’ now to unlock the full post and exclusive video!"